Summer brings change!

It honestly makes me laugh how much things can change between my blog posts!  It is just a perfect picture of our life here - always something around the corner!  Not bad necessarily - just new.

The main thing that has changed for us is Bryan's job.  After a month of training at The Tavern, he came home after his second real shift and said, "I don't think I can do this.  I truly hate waiting tables."  We hoped that a new restaurant would be better, but it was honestly more stressful.  It was causing him to not sleep well and dread going to work - it just wasn't worth it!

But God has been so good and has already brought along another job.  He just started working for a ministry for the elderly.  There are these 6 assisted living homes around town where he will be doing maintenance 20 hours a week.  He is already a handyman of sorts, but he will be learning some new things as well which will be nice when we are home owners again.  He can decide which hours work for him each week and can back off on weeks where he has a lot of tests or papers.  We are amazingly thankful - God is so so good.

Our one hesitation with this job is the fact that we only have one car.  Thus far we have made it work with very few problems, but this job will make it a bit harder.  So we are praying that God would either provide a second car for us, provide money for a mini van, or that He would work out our schedules so that it would not be too difficult.  I know that he can do any or all of the above and we are trusting Him with it.  He has given us a "peace beyond all understanding" - which is just a testimony that it is truly from Him.

On a lighter note, we have had some visitors over the last few weeks which has been a blast!  Bryan's parents were here for a good long visit.  We relaxed, laughed, ate good food and played a lot of cards (which Bryan or Alice always won).  So that was a blast.  And then my Mom just left yesterday and we also had a great time.  We had a girls day where Kat, Mom and I did some shopping, ate at a fun lunch spot and just enjoyed time together.  We also just played and got caught up.  Time with family is always so refreshing for us!

We truly feel like we are soaking up the summer which has been awesome.  Bryan has been playing Frisbee Golf like crazy (I do believe that he is a bit addicted).  There is a course across the street from us so he goes over there most days for at least 20 or 30 minutes - and a lot of time with a couple of buddies.  Nothing like some fun free entertainment in Colorado in the summer!

We also got up to our uncle's condo with some dear friends over Father's Day weekend.  It was stunningly beautiful!  The crazy thing was that one day we were hanging out in the village in jeans a t-shirts, and the next morning it looked like a blizzard - it was awesome!!  See pictures below!

I can tell that my time is limited due to nap time with 3 kids (we are watching our nephew Tate for a few days with Kat & Sean are on a trip).  So here are our main prayer requests!

- A second car.  As I said above - we know God could answer this in many different ways.  But it is a big one right now.

- My anxiety, I am starting to wean myself off my medication so we praying for a smooth and healthy transition!  I have been feeling normal and like myself for awhile now, so we are very hopeful.

- Finances.  We are going to make another push on support raising soon to help us in this last year.  If you are at all interested in hearing more about where we are financially or how you might be able to help - please let me know.  We could NOT do this without help - so every little bit is a huge blessing!

Here are a few pics to highlight the last month or so!


Fun times at the Children's Museum with PaPa and Grammy!


Frisbee Golf with some buddies in the mountains - they were all loving life!


Father's Day Weekend in the mountains


My boys!


The next morning - CRAZY!!  And so beautiful!


Fun in water fountains at such a cool park!




Focus on the Family in Colorado Springs with Nonie

Semester End!

It is really hard to believe that by this time next year, Lord willing, Bryan will have graduated.  My how time does fly it seems.  We are two semesters down here at Denver Seminary and we are so thankful for God's reassurances that we are right where we are supposed to be.  He has continued to break and refine us in ways that I am not sure we would have experienced anywhere else, or under any other circumstances.  He is molding us to be more like Son - and for that we are so thankful.

Bryan just finished his second semester about a week ago and he did great.  We are so proud of him!  It was pretty stressful at the end when he wrote 30 pages in a weekend and had to study for 2 big finals - but he finished strong and is thankful to be done for a little while.  He is taking 6 hours this summer which will consist of 2 intensive classes that will each be 2 weeks long.  One in June and one in July.  So that will allow for some non-school time over the next 3 months which is much needed.

Thankfully, the kids and I were able to go to Little Rock while Bryan was so busy with school and we had such a great time.  Thank you so much to all of you who were praying.  I was a little "anxious" (for lack of a better word) about going home after such a hard trip in December.  But God was so faithful.  I prayed for it to be a FUN trip, great time with family and friends, and anxiety free - and I am so thankful to report that it was all that and more.  The kids had a ball and loved time with their Nonie and cousins.  What a blessing!

Big news - Bryan got a new job!!  He is waiting tables at a really cool new restaurant in downtown Littleton called The Tavern.  They officially open next week so he is training right now which is pretty extensive since it is a brand new restaurant - but he is excited about it.  The best part is that it is about a mile and half from our apartment!!  And with one car, that is huge!  He has already ridden his bike to work a few times which he loves.  We are so thankful.  So our prayer now is that it is a good fit, that he can be a light for Jesus, and that it is a job that he will want to keep until he graduates next May.

We have some great praises in the ways that God is moving and providing for us!  Obviously, Bryan's new job is a big praise in that department.  He also got another scholarship for this next year for $2000 to help with school - amazing!  I am going to start helping out at Jazzercise as a class manager that will allow me to do Jazzercise for free!  And we have continued to be amazed and humbled by the generosity of friends and family who have sacrificed to help us financially.  I think I say this every time, but we honestly cannot begin to express our gratitude.  We could NOT do this without the help of our home church, friends and family.  Thank you a thousand times over!

One of the things we are really excited about for this summer is fun family time.  There are so many things to do and see here in Colorado and we are really wanting to take advantage of that while we are here.  For example, we drove down to Colorado Springs one day this week and just got to explore which was so fun - and everything was free!  We went to the Focus on the Family Adventures in Odyssey area which was so cool and the kids loved.  We also went to the Garden of the Gods and had a ball.  Bryan and I could not stop talking about how majestic it was.  It is so beautiful here and we are wanting to soak it all in this summer.

Well, my downtime is about over!  Here are a few prayer requests:

- As I said before, please pray that Bryan's new job is a good fit and that Jesus would shine through him!

- I am starting to explore a new job opportunity doing some photo editing.  As funny as it sounds, pray that I am good at it and that God would help me make some good connections.

- Finances.  Again, we have been so blessed, so it is really hard for us to ask for more.  But we will still come up short in the end if we don't raise more support.  Please pray that God would provide for us in a mighty way.

Amazed and Thankful,
Corrie

Here are a few pictures from the past few months:

At the Little Rock Zoo with Nonie and the McConnells


Riding the train at the Zoo.


My little troopers on the airplane.


Fun family day!


The Garden of the Gods in Colorado Springs.

Lots to be thankful for ...

I just reread my last blog post and remembered how I felt when I wrote it ... I am so thankful to say that God has done and is continuing to do a mighty work!

First I just want to thank all of you so much for your prayers, encouragement and support.  This whole anxiety experience has honestly been one of the hardest things that I have ever been through - but I have learned so much.  Bryan and I were laughing the other day when I remembered a prayer that I prayed back in the fall (before all of this started), just asking the Lord to "keep us all healthy over the next 2 years because we really can't afford to be sick while we are here."  That just struck us as funny when we considered how many pills I have taken over the past 2 months!!  Between my anxiety, my stomach, a terrible cold and my first sinus infection - I had never taken so many pills in my life!  But I know that God has been carrying me through every step and is continuing to deepen my faith in Him as my Rock, my Strength, my Portion and my Comforter.  He is so good.

The anxiety has been so much better!  I have been feeling more normal that I had in months and that just feels good.  A huge teller for me was when Jordan threw up the other night and I didn't freak out thinking that I was going to get sick.  Weird I know - but "being sick" was something I feared so much in the midst of my panic attacks.  I have been able to work out at least 4 times a week which has helped so much.  I try to have fun or worshipful music on when the kids are playing around the apartment (music makes such a big difference for me).  And Bryan is only working on the weekends and that has been huge for both of us!  So - I am thankful to be able to report that I am doing much better - thank you again for your prayers.  I go back to the doctor next month - I'll keep you posted.

We have been staying pretty busy around here!  It is hard to believe that Bryan already has midterms next week!  We have had some fun stuff going on lately so the time has been going by fast.  A huge highlight from the last month was when we got to go back to Arkansas to go to Sr. High Winter Chill (the winter retreat with the youth group that Bryan worked at for that last 5 years).  It was a surprise to all the kids which was so much fun - we felt so sneaky!  It was just so refreshing to be around such dear friends that we have such great history with.  Three of my small group girls were there which was awesome, and catching up with the staff and some of the volunteers was amazing.  We miss you all and are so thankful for the time that we got to spend with you.  Thank you FSM - for a great chance for Bryan and I to get away and reconnect with all of you.  We love you all so dearly.

This last weekend my mom came to visit which was great.  We went to the outlets, ate good food, went to the Children's Museum (amazing), and just got some good play time with Nonie.  The kids were in heaven and were so sad to see her go.  But we will be visiting Little Rock the first week of May while Bryan stays here to get ready for finals.

The weather here is amazing today!  It is 67 degrees and I think I got a bit of a sunburn while we were out on the playground.  You really can't beat Colorado weather!

Once again - I am amazed that anyone would read any of my posts, so thanks for caring enough to do so!  Here are a few prayer requests:

- Bryan's Job - he has put in a few applications at some restaurants close by.  He just isn't making the money he could be making at other places.  And being closer would save on time and gas.

- School - as I said before, Bryan is gearing up for midterms next week so he is spending a lot of time at the library.  Pray that he is able to absorb all the information and finish well before Spring Break.  He is doing such a great job - but it is still stressful.

- Finances - I don't know if there will be a time while we are in seminary that this won't be a prayer request. :)  Please pray that God would continue to provide for us.  We have been amazed and humbled by those of you who have given to us financially and we truly cannot thank you enough.  Every dollar makes a huge difference.  One of the things that we are truly looking forward to when we have a normal job again is being able to bless others with whatever we might have.  After being on this end of support raising, I understand how significant even a small amount can be!

We are so thankful for our friends.  So thankful for our family.  So thankful for our life here at Denver Seminary.  So thankful for our Father who loves to lavish His love upon us.  While we were at Winter Chill, we were introduced to a new song that has become a favorite for me, especially with where we are right now.  Here is the chorus:

Oh my God - He will not delay
My refuge and strength always
I will not fear
His promise is true
My God will come through always
Always

What an awesome promise!
Corrie


My small group girls and Andrew Glenn at Winter Chill - so fun!


The Hedlunds - we love and miss you guys!


This picture just makes me smile!


Silly girls!

Changes ...

Finally ... I am sitting down to update the blog!  It has honestly been on my to do list for awhile, but it has been a bit crazy around here.  I haven't posted since before Thanksgiving, so I will do a quick recap and then fill you in on what is going on now.

We spent Thanksgiving in the mountains with Katherine and Sean as well as Sean's family which was fun.  It was nice to be with some family.  Katherine and I actually cooked the meal - we were very proud of ourselves.  The next week was mine and Bryan's birthdays and we both got sick - such a bummer.  The upside was that the kids and I watched the entire "Avatar" series that week!!  If you haven't seen it and you have kids, I would strongly suggest it.  Although - I'll admit - I may have enjoyed it even more than the kids!

Christmas ... honestly, was rough.  It was so good to be with my family and see some friends, but the circumstances were hard.  I was really struggling with some anxiety which was totally new to me.  It isn't hard to figure out how I got to that point when looking at the last 6 to 8 months (moving, raising support, doing a lot of single parenting) - but it still really caught me off guard.  So a lot of Christmas break I was processing and learning about anxiety and panic attacks.  On top of that, there was a stomach bug that went through our family which is always lovely.  Honestly - I was just very disappointed with how things played out.  I had been so looking forward to going home - and it turned out to be a really hard couple of weeks.

We got back to Colorado and the anxiety was better, but still an issue.  So Bryan and I decided I needed to see a doctor before school starts up again.  I went last Friday and am now on some medication so we are praying that it helps.  I have had some normal side effects such as fatigue, sour stomach and dizziness - but most of the things I have heard and read is that those tend to wear off as your body adjusts.  And it usually takes a couple of weeks to really start noticing a difference.  So we will see.  I keep thinking about something that I heard in a sermon/talk recently - "If you are struggling, struggle well."  In other words, glorify God in the process.  Easier said than done, but I am trying.  He is deepening me, refining me and growing me - and while that can be painful, it is so good.

I was debating on sharing all of this on the blog, but it is a huge thing going on in our lives right now and those of you that care enough to read this far would probably want to know.  So thank you for caring about us - it means more than you know!

On a lighter note!!!  Bryan's family came up last week and we got to go skiing - we had so much fun!  We skied, played games, ate good food and just had sweet family time.  Bryan and I got to ski quite a bit with our oldest 3 nephews which was a blast - they are growing so fast.  And we even got Jordan on some skis!  She has a free pass and ended up using Eli's rentals skis (he is 6 months older than her) - and she loved it!  It was exhausting for me, but such a highlight.  It was just the two of us and we had ball.

We have been soaking up time together while Bryan doesn't have class which has been so nice.  But everything starts back up next week so we are trying to gear up for that.  With all that being said, here are a few prayer requests for us:

- Please pray for my anxiety.  I am doing a little better every day which is encouraging!  But with school starting up next week, our schedule is going to be kicking into high gear again.  So I need to be feeling good.  And it is hard for Bryan to be gone when he knows that I am not feeling well.
- Finances.  We are still raising support and Bryan is working, but obviously we are having a some unexpected expenses with doctor visits and a few other things.  So just pray that God would provide exactly what we need.

- Bryan's job.  We are praying about if/when Bryan should look for another job.  Things have picked up some at On The Border, but it could be better.  We are just praying for wisdom with all that.

Thanks for reading and for walking this journey with us.  It has been a crazy ride already - but God is at work and we are excited to be a part of it!  Here are few fun pictures from the last few months.

Cousins with their Nonie!  They all loved being together!



 
Such fun with family!
 
That's my girl!

Gray Hair and Country Music!

I have always loved this time of year.  I love pulling out the winter clothes and coats.  I love the warm colors and cool air.  I even love how it gets darker earlier - it makes me feel cozy!  But I think one of my favorite things is that it is a great time to reflect on the year that has almost passed.  It is a time of processing and thankfulness - and this year has provided a lot of reasons for both!

One thing that I am processing is the number of gray hairs on my head!!  They have probably quadrupled over the past 8 months!  But it isn't the actual hair that I am processing ... it is the reasons for it.  If you would have told me last November that one year from now we would be living in Littleton, Colorado I would have laughed and said that was crazy.  If you would have told me that the reason we moved there was for Bryan to attend seminary ... I would have said that YOU were crazy!  This was not our "plan."  But God has a great way of lovingly (and often times not so gently) redirecting us to where we need to be.  The circumstances around our decision to come here were hard, but so so good for us.  We loved the people we were with and that was, in our minds, reason enough to stay where we were.  But God had more for us - and I am so glad that we didn't miss it!  He is deepening and sharpening us in totally new ways ... preparing us.  We don't know what for yet - but we are excited for the ride! 

Another thing that has probably caused a few more gray hairs is a little man named Drew!  I cannot express to you how much I love that kid.  He is a true JOY!  But he keeps me on my toes and is teaching me to go with the flow more.  We had some rough/frustrating spots this year - but I feel like we have turned a corner.  Although he still isn't talking much (at least not words I can understand) ... he is understanding tons - and that has made all the difference.  I am learning a lot about parenting and am so amazingly thankful to be surrounded by so many incredible mothers that I get to watch in action on a daily basis.  And I pray that am a better mother because of them.  Thanks DenSem mommies!

Isn't he a cutie?

A few of those amazing mommies I was talking about!

I must confess that I have been missing home some lately.  I have been working on our yearly album so I think some of that is due to looking at pictures.  And although I am truly loving it here in Colorado ... it still doesn't feel like home yet.  Maybe that is why I have found myself landing on the country radio station lately!  There is something about country music that feels like home to me.  For all of you friends from the north, west or Australia (haha) - NO, we don't just listen to country music all the time in Arkansas!!  I love all kinds of music as many of you know.  But I do love me some country - it just makes me smile.

I would be remiss to not mention stress in relation to money.  I wouldn't say that we have obsessed about it - but it is continuously on our hearts.  And that may just be the nature of support raising.  Even now, my eyes are welling up with tears when I think about those who have already given so much to help us get here.  It amazes me EVERY time anyone gives us anything.  It humbles me to my very core.  Knowing we have people cheering for us and believing in us gives us strength.  Your prayers are powerful and effective!!  "Thank you" never feels like enough ... but thank you all the same.

So yes - the gray hair has multiplied (although I am hiding it pretty well).  And although a lot of it I am sure has to do genetics (love you Mom) ... it has also been a busy and stressful year.  Which is why I am so thankful for this holiday season.  I want to soak it all in and be fully present in it - not looking to tomorrow.  I want to truly experience Immanuel - God with us!  Thank you Jesus that you are here ... with me.

As always - thank you for reading!!

(here are a few more pics)

Our little Tinkerbell at Halloween!

We had two Halloweens!  Jordan was what I call a "diva" this night.  Drew was Spiderman.  And Bryan even dressed up as a ninja (No wait - he was about to leave for work)!

I love this picture.

Birthday Girl, Mid Term ... and Thank You.

How in the world can it be October 27!?  September seemed to crawl by like a snail, whereas October is flying by so fast I almost missed it!  It has been a busy month to say the least!

First - and most importantly - our baby girl turned 4 years old!  Her birthday weekend was so much fun.  My Mom and Cade (our nephew and Jordan's buddy) came to visit and Jordan was in heaven!  As if that wasn't enough fun, we had a birthday party at the park and all of her new friends were there.  It was a beautiful fall morning which was a huge answer to prayer.  And although we had to relocate at one point, it turned out to be a perfect picnic and the kids played, fed the ducks, ate doughnuts and chocolate chip pumpkin muffins - and the adults got to just relax and visit.  All in all - a success on all counts!  Here are a few pics:

I also HAVE to include this picture which just makes me laugh!  Cade and Jordan being so silly after bath time!

So we started off the month with a BANG and didn't stop moving from there.  Bryan has been working 5 nights a week and class on 1 night as well.  He is keeping up with his school work which is a blessing and I am SO proud of him.  We are at the half way point of this first semester!!  We were talking the other day about where we are right now and we just kinda looked at each other and said, "We're doing it."  After the long journey of getting here and the challenges that we are facing now, God is sustaining us and we are moving forward.  I think it will feel really good to have a whole semester under our belts come December.  We will be thankful for a long break as well!  We have booked our tickets to be in Little Rock for Christmas and are hoping to hug as many people as we can while we are there! 

The kids are awake now so I need to wrap this up ...

I wanted to give a HUGE thank you to all of you who have supported us and have been praying for us.  My last post entitled "Money" was a hard one to write and your responses have meant so much to us.  It is humbling on so many levels to raise support and it has taught us so much.  I am thankful to report that we have raised 44.5% of our overall need.  God is so faithful ... and we are clinging to that promise!  We have come to the realization that while Bryan's job is a blessing and is filling in the gap some ... he is not making enough for the time he is putting in.  The restaurant simply isn't busy enough so he isn't able to make what he needs to be making.  SO - we are praying for a new job.  He is going to start working on that today.  He would LOVE to get a job in ministry since that is what he has been doing and wants to do!  But he is open to a lot of things.  So with all that in mind ... here are a few prayer requests:

-  Please pray that Bryan would find a new job.  He doesn't have a lot of spare time to put much effort into this, so my prayer is that the job would find him.

- Bryan asked me yesterday how I was doing on a heart level.  Well - to be honest I have no idea.  I feel like I am dealing with all the immediate stuff that I haven't thought too much about my needs.  My time with the Lord has been so sweet which I am thankful for ... but being a wife and mommy has pretty much been all that I do throughout the day.  So how is Corrie doing ... good question.  I am trying to figure that out.

- Finances.  Sorry for the repetition on this one.

Love you all and thank you for sticking with us.  We don't know what we would do without all of you in our corner.

Corrie

Money ...

I have been debating on writing this post for a few weeks, and God has really stirred my heart to be transparent with all of you about where we are right not in regards to finances.  As some of you know, we have been trying to raise support all summer to help us get through the next 2 years.  We have been amazed and humbled by the generosity of some of our family and friends.  I have been brought to tears many times by the love and support that we have received - it has been truly amazing.  Thank you so much to all of you who have given so sacrificially - we are doing our very best to be good stewards of every penny!

With all of that being said (and here is where my heart starts racing as I type) ... we still need help.  Bryan has been the one that has been writing our support letters and meeting with people to ask for help, but this is the first time you are hearing from me - and my take is a little different because for one, we are actually here now ... and for two, I am seeing the burden that Bryan is carrying.  And it is just really hard.  So ... I have been told that in support raising it is best to just lay it all out there ... so here we go (deep breath Corrie). 

If we were to raise 100% of what we need for the next two years - we are only about 37% there.  With that being said - we have raised enough to pay for tuition and books which is AWESOME!!!  What we still have to pay for is rent, health insurance, car insurance, groceries, electric bills, etc.  All the regular day to day stuff.  And please trust me when I say, that we are trying to cut wherever we can.  But living costs money as we all know.

Bryan is working at On The Boarder waiting tables.  He feels real purpose in being there and is excited to see what all God has in store.  But he is having to work a lot to make the money that we need (and to be honest we are still coming up short).  Supposedly this is the slowest time of year for restaurants.  The last number of weeks he has worked 5 nights in a row with a double shift on Saturdays.  And he has class on Monday nights, so we have had him home one night a week.  Thankfully, we do get to see him at random times throughout the day and at lunch which is a blessing.  But he is having to spend numerous hours a day at the library to study and get all of his school work done.  So needless to say ... between school and work, he is one busy guy.

We honestly hadn't planned on being able to raise 100% of what we need for the next 2 years - not that God couldn't do that!!  We did expect that we would need to work some ... just not quite this much.  The pace has been a bit nuts to say the least.  And that is why I am writing this - to ask for your help to ease Bryan's load.  If he could work more like 3 or 4 shifts a week, it would make a HUGE difference in not only his life, but our life as a family.  Here are a couple of ways that you can help:

1.  Financial Support.  We have a scholarship fund that our home church has established for us where donations to our account are tax deductible.  Monthly or one-time gifts are huge.  Simply make checks payable to Fellowship Bible Church with our name in the memo section and mail them to:

Fellowship Bible Church
attn: Rosie Stephens
PO Box 7123
Little Rock, AR  72223

2.  Resolve to pray!  It is so exciting for me to think about how God might surprise us in this way!  I want to ask that you would pray specifically that God would bless Bryan financially at work.  One night he had a table that gave him a $50 tip from a $45 ticket - it was amazing.  When Bryan told me about it, I really felt God saying, "Corrie, I have got this.  You just have to trust me."  Oh how He loves us!!!

Well, thank you for reading this.  I literally just let out a deep breath ... this is just hard stuff for me.  Bryan said it best for both of us in one of his support letters.  He wrote, "I hate asking anyone, for anything, ever.  It exposes my pride and humbles me at a real level.  But God has convicted me that I often don't have because I don't ask him or his people."  I couldn't have said better.  Again - thanks for reading and for loving and supporting us.  It honestly means more than you could ever imagine!

Humbled,
Corrie


"Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever! Amen."  Eph 3: :20-21